Is it gay if i shove things in my ass
Man-to-man
Man to Gentleman sex
The only way to diminish HIV transmission or other sexually transmitted infections during sex is to exploit a barrier - most commonly a condom.
If you are having anal sex, it's essential that you exploit a regular condom which fits your penis, and employ plenty of moisture based lubricant. Recent studies have shown that extra mighty condoms are not needed for anal sex, providing that you use them properly.
Although in the UK, flavoured condoms are lay under the equal rigorous testing as regular condoms, they generally should not be used for anal sex, as they can bring about irritation to the anus; other novelty condoms should not be used for anal sex.
If you are not having anal sex, still be notified of any sores or cuts you have which may be exposed to your partner's semen. For example, if you are going to have oral sex, make sure you don't brush your teeth immediately beforehand as this can cause tiny cuts in your gums; chew gum or use mouthwash instead.
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Different forms of sex and their risks
Touching and kissing
Touching and kissing
A reader has a interrogate about putting a marker pen up his bum. I say, ‘please don’t, it’s not safe.’
hi,my specify is L*** and im a 14 yr vintage boy and like masterbation. Sometimes i like to get a little bit kinky, one of the ways is anal penetration, but i am not gay, i like girls but i guess i’m just curious on how it feels to them. I use a marker pen to use instead of you know what it’s has no sharps edges etc. What length in size and diameter should i get that maximises the pleasure and safe for penetration. and a serious question if a e.g 14 yr old boy had a condom and had sex with a girl is it safe, thank you
Like with all questions I get, I’ll treat both questions seriously and offer you a proper answer.
It’s fine to be into masturbation and it’s nice to enjoy anal penetration (for whatever reason). But, please don’t put a marker pen up your bum. As I’ve discussed here and here, marker pens aren’t safe to use in the vagina but they are also really not safe to use up your arse. Why? Because you can lose it up there. True story.
The anus has very strong muscles surrounding the opening (sphincter) and the colon. Ever tried holding a fart i
For anyone who does not know, the label “Bottom,” refers to a dude who participates in passive anal sex. A “Top” is the active participant. There are many men who take to bottoming like a duck to water, never have and issue or injury and would not understand what all the fuss is about. On the other hand, there are many men who are drawn to experience of bottoming who cannot achieve their goals quiet so easily.
There are two main issues connected to bottoming. Firstly, how do I equip for anal sex? Secondly, how do I retain clean down there so I won’t soil myself and my partner. Both are very valid concerns and discussed a lot in the community.
The general rule of thumb when preparing to bottom is to start small and work up in a consistent and graded way. Any unnecessary muscle tension in and around your pelvis is unhelpful. Build sure you are relaxed and almost in a meditative relaxed state before starting to physically dilate your anal canal. Maintain your breathing deep and slow and relax your abdominals.
Two very effective methods of anal dilation are the Self Massage Method and the Dilator Plug Method.
The Self Massage Method was the subject of a recent study a
i like to shove things up my butt while i jack off but im 14 and cant buy a dildo what can i use?
I'm under 14 I LOVE shoving stuff up my ass :-), feels great, like BlaRedMcg said, use a screwdriver's handle, make sure not to use screwdrivers that are not smooth (they're painful) and use it with a condom (I wasted all the condoms in the closet), screwdrivers are often found in the closet, garage, bathroom, attic, basement, or anywhere where car, dwelling or or similar repair utensils are found. ʏou can also ask your parents to boy you a screwdriver for a "school project" you need to "do", try to find screwdrivers that look like rubber or smooth, groovy screwdrivers, (personally my Favourite brand is "Stanley" they MOSTLY buy ones like the one I'm describing!)) not difficult HARD plastic ones, I will put links here to where you can buy these online :-), you should be able to buy amazon gift cards at any convenient, local or grocery store, typically Smith's, penis's Market (LOL, a grocery store), Fresh Market or BestBuy (BTW I LOVE
Putting things up your arse
The arse is one of the most sensitive parts of the body, and putting things inside it can be very horny. However, your arse is delicate: you should treat it with respect as something that you wish to retain in good condition for years to come - both for sex and shitting.
Not all lgbtq+ men use their arses for sex, but still have wholly satisfying and fulfilling sex lives. However, But the majority of gay men employ their arses for sex in one way or another, whether it’s a tongue, finger, cock, dildo or fist.
Why it can undergo so good
- The arsehole and anal canal are sensitive to touch.
- The rectum can sense movement and can stretch.
- The prostate gland (which is very sensitive) can be stimulated through the wall of the rectum.
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Shape, size and texture
Warm, flexible, smooth-edged and dildo-shaped objects which can slip in and out easily are the best things to stick up your arse – which is why cocks are so awesome. With care and practice larger cocks and dildos and fists can eventually be accommodated. Conversely, cold, hard, rugged and angular shaped objects can graze or cut the inside of the arse and produce bleeding, br