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No One is Born Gay
I used to struggle daily with unwanted alike sex attraction – unwanted homosexuality. From my earliest recollections I felt drawn to other males. Many circumstances came my way that only seemed to reinforce those feelings. When I was five years senior an adult male confronted me in a sexual behavior. As a kid I was very emotionally sensitive, esthetic, and musical…and the other boys at school in my formative years seemed to relish in reminding me how much of a fag I was. In my college days, a confidant and mentor – married with children, Christian, and people leader – made a sexual advance…and I was convinced this was my lot in existence. The only challenge with that is that I became more miserable than ever. When I got to the end of my rope, God met me there with a new persona and the authority to change my way of thinking. To my fantastic dismay (but not to my surprise), the world has begun to ponder in an upside-down manner, calling what is righteous ridiculous and what is perverse normal and acceptable.
Once I began to understand God’s true plan for my identity, I began to reflect in a way I had never thought before. No longer was I one trapped in bondage (homosexuality
March 02, 2017
The Epidemic of
Gay LonelinessBy Michael Hobbes
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“I used to get so elated when the meth was all gone.”
This is my friend Jeremy.
“When you hold it,” he says, “you have to keep using it. When it’s gone, it’s like, ‘Oh superb, I can go endorse to my life now.’ I would stay up all weekend and leave to these sex parties and then feel appreciate shit until Wednesday. About two years ago I switched to cocaine because I could work the next day.”
Jeremy is telling me this from a hospital bed, six stories above Seattle. He won’t tell me the accurate circumstances of the overdose, only that a stranger called an ambulance and he woke up here.
Jeremy is not the confidant I was expecting to have this conversation with. Until a few weeks ago, I had no idea he used anything heavier than martinis. He is trim, intelligent, gluten-free, the kind of guy who wears a serve shirt no matter what day of the week it is. The first time we met, three years ago, he asked me if I knew a good place to do CrossFit. Today, when I ask him how the hospital’s been so far, the first thing he says is that there’s no Wi-F
I'm a Woman Who's Sleeping With a Gay Male (Yes, He's Still Gay)
For the past year, I’ve been having regular sex with a gay dude I'll call Oliver. We were best friends for years, attending many Identity festival parades and taking weekend hiking trips. But last year, after a very drunken night, we slept together—and we still are today. He maintains that he still is, and always has been, a gay man.
After the first time, we were predictably awkward and British about it. We laughed a bit that it had happened, and then we agreed we shouldn’t execute it again.
That lasted maybe three days. The first few months had all the expected exciting parts of sleeping with your best bud, but they were also tinged with this brand new fresh thing. Oliver had never been with a chick before, and he was completely unaware of what a vulva or a clitoris was. Fortunately, Oliver had the benefit of my feminist Orgasm Gap rants over the past five years, and took to the task of making me come with admirable tenacity. One of the sweetest moments of that year was result the book She Comes First on his bedside table.
Men I’ve slept with before often have this false bravado around sex, like they need
Over a month ago I met with my female friend, Joan, for drinks. She told me that her gay best-friend, Patrick, was going to participate us, but warned me that he was struggling with his sobriety. I know of this human well, he’s a Toronto gay porn performer who is HIV+. About 36 years of age, he is a drug addict, an alcoholic and as already mentioned, but it bears repeating, he performs in gay pornographic videos.
When she told me he would be joining us I had to adjust a second. It would take a lot out of me, and as an introvert I do not like last minute changes to my plans. Call me closed-minded!
It is worth noting that I do not acquire many gay male friends and no lesbian friends. There are many reasons for this. I locate most gay men to be selfish, self-involved, self-absorbed, shallow, superficial, materialistic, sex-addicted and vacuous. They devote to talk about themselves and only themselves. They treat their sexual conquests as achievements and accomplishments to make up for the fact they own none of their possess.
Part of the reason for this is that most gay men own absolutely zero heterosexual male friends. They only socialize with each other and they don’t go outside of
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