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Jasvir Singh: 'I'm a devout Sikh - and married to a man'
Religion editor, BBC News
Jasvir Singh lays out some photographs on the table in front of him and takes a immersive breath. They are pictures of joyful moments from the day last summer when he married his husband, Nick.
"I know that speaking about this is going to be highly controversial," he says. "I'm sure there will be lots of people out there who will be upset, annoyed, even irate at me.
"But I've got nothing to hide and I know that I have got Waheguru [God] with me, as I possess had Waheguru with me all the way."
Jasvir is a family regulation barrister and the main Sikh contributor to Radio 4's Thought For The Day. He has just been awarded a CBE for his work bringing faith communities together and advocating for vulnerable groups.
But through it all, he has lived with a swirl of speculation about his private life - often spilling over into attempts at intimidation - that he now wants to address head-on.
"There is a very small element of the British Sikh community that makes itself loudly heard. From them I have receiv
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The Sikh faith is one of the youngest faiths in the world. Founded in the 15th century, Sikhism as a religion is very tolerant and advocates equality; however, the Punjabi tradition in which I grew up and which, as a state, is the heart of India’s Sikh community, is often not so tolerant. It is also a faith where, for a long time, no large-scale discussions around the topic of homosexuality have taken place within the community (for great or bad). But as LGBT* rights advance across the world, the status quo within the Sikh faith too is changing gradually, thanks to a young generation of queer Sikhs who are now vocal about their sexuality.
I still remember how lonely and muddled I felt after coming out (both to myself, and then to the world at large). I grew up in a Sikh family in India, and while I was not particularly religious, I maintained my religious self by having uncut hair and wearing a turban. My parents were religious, but beyond taking me to Gurudwa Prince Manvendra Singh Gohil, India’s first openly same-sex attracted prince, revealed in an interview that his parents sought medical help to "convert" him after he told them that he was gay. The probable heir of the Maharaja of Rajpipla in Gujarat told Sky News that he felt humiliated when his parents visited doctors in the hope they could perform brain surgery and electroshock therapy to create him straight. advertisement “It was an absolute case of discrimination and violation of human rights. Whether I'm a prince or not a prince, parents have no right to put their children through [this] courteous of torture,” he said. He added that their invite ultimately failed because doctors in the US, where they sought the ‘treatment’, refused to operate while mentioning that homosexuality is not a mental disorder. "It didn't happen but fantasize how much harassment one has to go through, how much humiliation one has to go through, just to endure this pain and suffering at the hands of parents - and this is happening to so many individuals in India," he added. Prince Gohil, who is a
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